I always direct most of my posts towards guys who think that they need to improve their dating game. I think it's time for a post for the guys who have pretty solid game. I want to talk about a mistake that I use to make all of the time. When you're good at the game, you tend to let your ego get to you. You become this hardass "bitches ain't shit" type of guy, and as a result, you lose quality BBW. For the longest time, I use to think that busty women were a dime a dozen, and they are. However, one thing that you don't realize until it's too late, is that women that you actually vibe with on a personality day to day type level, are incredibly rare. You can date and sleep with all of the hot women that you want, but the type of woman that you can talk to, like doing the same activities with, and just overall get along with very well, are hard to come by. In fact, it is said that you only encounter such women three times in your life.

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Alright, so what do guys who are good at the game do wrong? They get caught up in the dating game. They listen to all of the stuff that gurus put into their heads, and forget that women are humans, and being humans, they are not all the same. Not every chubby girl that you come across is going to enjoy watching football with you, be into videogames, or like talking about whatever your favorite topic of conversation is.

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Am I saying that you should just stop being a player when you come across this type of BBW? No. However, seeing that this girl is human, she is rare, and you have to have the state of mind to recognize this and treat her accordingly. What this means is that if you were smart, you wouldn't treat her as if she was just another chubby girl. If you do so, then you're going to lose her for good, and one day you're going to grow frustrated because of the loneliness you feel because you can't find another oversized girl like her.

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Most BBW have put up with my shit. However, do to my player ways, or unwillingness to open up to them, I eventually lost some of them for good. There were also the chubby girls who expressed wanting a relationship with me, but with me being me, I let my ego get the best of me, and passed on a relationship with them. I had the mindset of a guy who figured that every girl was easily replaceable, so why should I care if they wanted a relationship or had a crush on me?

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What exactly am I trying to tell you to do when you come across such a busty girl? Should you date her? No, but it is in your best interests not to be seen as a PUA or guru in the eyes of these BBW . It is in your best interests to at least treat them as good friends and not try to pick up or talk about other women in your life in front of them (because it might hurt their feelings). This way, you're at least on good terms with them, and should you decide that you want a relationship with them later on, it is still feasible if they're available.

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What about if you do get into a relationship with such an oversized girl? What should you do then? Stop. You need to take some time and think. You're going to have to re-evaluate what it is that this woman wants from you. Being a good PUA might have been what a girl wanted in a guy she falls in love with, but it may not be the guy she wants to be in a long term relationship with. Indifference may have gotten her, but indifference probably won't keep her.

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Am I saying that you should turn into an all out nice guy? No, as women still want a man with that masculine edge. However, you might want to think about being romantic. You might want to think about doing nice things for her. And you might want to start treating her as if she is the most important woman in the world. Understand that you can still be a manly masculine guy that is wanted by other BBW and still treat your girlfriend like she is actually special. In other words, be nice to her out of your own will, and don't be nice because you're trying to win her favors. Women can understand the difference. You might not "get it" now, but with age, you surely will.

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